To be honest, I don't really think there's a communication problem here. Leaving aside a few "unfortunate" choices of words you've put your ideas across very clearly. It's simply that the people here don't agree with your priorities because every change the XWAU makes affects gameplay to a certain extent. In light of that, making small adjustments to the POV isn't really significant.
There have been much bigger changes, like the upscaling of the Outrider from something equivalent to the old Hasbro toy to its proper size, and giving it turrets. I think you can probably blame me for that, because I created the first turreted version out of the original TG opt years before the XWAU version was released. Bottom line, so long as missions don't become actually "broken" we'll tend to support small changes here and there and the occasional bit one - like more than doubling the size of the SSD.